Blocking

bellace · Mist Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 51

Those who remember, I found my "twin" on the other side of Australia. She has been going through some health issues lately and i have been worried about both her physical and mental wellbeing.

We had become what I thought was quite close friends. However, we have had a bit of a disagreement (i dont really want to go into too much detail, but I think she was feelingi was interfering too much. im guilty of caring to the point of smothering!!) She doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. I have gone along with her wishes and deleted her from my contact lists..how ever i cant block our spiritual connection! I can still recieve message from her and I think im unitentionally sending messages to her through our guides.

I dont want to upset her any further, but i cant block it all! Can anyone help at all??

AbbeyGal · Mist Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 118

What do your guides have to say about this, since they are the ones passing on messages? Have you flat out asked them to stop passing the messages? It may be part of your life's purpose to work things out between you. I'm assuming that the smothering was also a factor in your past lives.

Do you want to cut off your spiritual connection altogether for this life? I have heard about ways to break the energy cords between people. I think Sonia Choquette talks about that in Trust Your Vibes. If you want it to be temporary, I would mentally put little flow meters on the cords between you and turn the dial down to zero to shut off the energy for the time being.

bellace · Mist Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 51

im really upset by it all. I really dont want to lose her friendship!! I have been trying to give myself a bit of a break from my "psychic stuff" (for alack of a better term!! lol) as i i kept getting "rest" during my card readings...so i decided to pack everything away for a while, and just ahvent felt ready yet to return to it. I keep meaning to do some meditating...but havent found the time to do it yet.

The message i get is "Don't, please don't" and I assume its from from my friend ( through guides of course) I think she is telling me "dont contact me" All im saying back is "im not intentionally doing anything!!" But i cant be certain that is what her message means as they are the only words im getting.

I get the feeling the this isnt a "forever" situation. I dont feel i was out of line with my concern, and i get the feelign that BOTH our guides dont think so either. But i think she just needs time to see it from my point of veiw and give her mind and body time to rest and heal.

My feelings have been hurt by all this, and there are times i have been angry by it, and i hope this isnt what is coming across to her. Its seriously not what she needs at the moment and i want to give her the space she wants.

I am also wondering if this is maybe a test for me. Not turn this situation around to benefit myself or anything (god i hope this makes sense!!! lol) but yeah, im wondering if this is a sort of test to see how i can go on my own...if i can trust myself while being alone...not relying on my friend for guidance and assistance....and develop my abilities even further

So for the moment, I guess i want it to be a temporary thing. i definelty dont want it to be permanent. but that depends on my friend

AbbeyGal · Mist Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 118

No, it's temporary. Sometimes, as you said, people just need some space to put things in perspective.

bellace · Mist Joined: 18 Mar 2008 Posts: 51

i just wanted to say thanks for the help and advice with this. i have managed to block myself, mostly. It was a bit hard to do...it took a great deal of concentration to keep trying to develop, yet block at the same time.

I have come across Abby a few times in my meditations...but respected her wishes and pretty much ignored her. I pick up on some of her feelings though i think. I think she is feeling sorry and a bit embarassed for overreacting, but i think pride is standing in the way.

I still cross my fingers in hope that this isnt a permanent end to our friendship